A couple of years into my online career we were able to move from Glasgow to the Argyle coast – location freedom being one of the internet’s great gifts. We are a few miles south from the lovely little town of Dunoon and have explored the area a lot over the last 3 years. One of our favourite discoveries is an incredible natural beach a few miles off the beaten track of “Scotland’s secret” coast. Yesterday we packed some lunch, filled up my little BMW Z3, got the roof down and headed there.
Known as Kilbride bay or Ostel beach it’s a huge horseshoe bay of white sands with spectacular views of Arran and Bute. It’s a little out the way so there is always a chance that you’ll have the place to yourself if you ever visit. In a heat wave and during school holidays you may have to share it but it’s never going to be crowded (I hope) Yesterday I counted 20 other people on a roughly 2 mile stretch of beach.
Ostel bay – the name we prefer, is reached by driving from Dunoon – or by boat. You drive up and over the Kyles of Bute, taking in spectacular views of the various loch’s that compose this gorgeous area. Once past the pretty villages of Tighnabruaich and Kames you take a left instead of heading on to Portavadie. You then find yourself on a single track road. A couple of miles along you find Kilbride farm and a signpost to Kilbride bay. It’s on foot from there.
The path to the beach along a brief stretch of road then over scrubby marshland (totally dried out at the moment) takes about 20 minutes. Gradually the gorse bushes give way to sand dunes and then the beach itself. When we arrived yesterday at around 11am there was a little sailboat anchored a mile out. A family had paddled ashore from it and were the only people there. The tide was out and the sea itself was sparking half a mile out on the sand. The Isle of Arran looked magnificent in the distance and a few sailboats dotted the blue water. You could be forgiven for thinking you were on the Indian ocean.
A hundred meters out the water was still warm and still under knee height. To be able to swim would have meant wading out at least half a mile. Instead we chose to simply lie down in it. The feeling of lying in that warm, clear water with gentle waves lapping over me as I gazed out at Arran and the open sea beyond will stay with me for a long time. I stayed there for a long while meditating in that unspoilt, wonderful place. I definitely felt some sort of spiritual, oneness with nature there – complete peace of mind.
We spent a couple of idyllic hours there alternating between sunbathing and lying in the water. By then some young families had arrived and although it was very far from being crowded we decided to head for home. On the way back we picked up a bottle of Rose and some olives and spent the rest of the afternoon on our sun deck in the garden.
It’s quite ironic that the means to make that transition came from something as far from the natural world as its possible to be. But technology – the Internet specifically has been the bridge. It allows me to enjoy these perfect days, on any day of the week I choose (yesterday was Wednesday) I know that I have a business that is working for me even as I relax with my soul mate on a deserted beach. Hell I could even work there as I had a strong 4g signal! But that would be somehow be weird (and my partner would kill me)
You’ll have your own idea of your perfect day, which might be totally different to mine. It doesn’t matter what that is but you can and should have more of them. Time is precious. We live in incredible times and have many more choices than ever before in how we live and work. If you’d like to look at how the Internet can provide you with more of your ideal days check the link below. You’ll find a series of videos waiting for you from my own mentors, friends and business partners. Those videos were a springboard for me and can be for you too.
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Thanks, Dave, that`s a very vivid description you gave! It`s also inspiring to know that you`ve been able to create the ideal day you envisioned a few years ago. I`ve been on a similar path, myself, for the past three years. For me, before I began learning to market online, I felt as though I was already living my ideal day every day. The only thing lacking was cash flow. That was what turned me to investigate the opportunities available online. Are there any particular internet business models that you`ve gravitated toward and would recommend to others?
Hey Dave, I appreciate the time you took to write this blog about our perfect day. I heard a similar term which is "ideal day". Today, we live in a world that doesn`t allow us to dream big and aim for perfect days, we are so busy doing things that doesn`t really matter to us.
When we take the time to think about our perfect day. Lot of things start coming into reality, don`t they?
What is stopping me from waking up early and enjoying a healthy breakfast? Well, nothing... So by thinking about it and taking the action I can start living my perfect day.
Sometimes, I lose motivation, so I joined a community of like-minded entrepreneurs who motivate me and keep me on track to keep living my perfect day and aiming for a better life with more time, financial and geographical freedom.
Cheers,
Elie,
Hello Dave
Thank you for that story. It`s so nicely written. Beautiful descriptions and you build a big amount of pictures in my head.
I knew from the beginning what you were talking about: Your perfect day! of course.
And what a wonderful one....:-)
The thing I will point out though is that I probably would think it was a bit long. Because the question is: are you trying to sell a vacation or an online education. You could have fooled me, if I hadn`t known. We here in the SFM love those "best-day-stories" but may your audience will get a bit impatient.
Anyway it`s really beautifully written, and I especially like this passage at the end of the text: It%u2019s quite ironic that the means to make that transition came from something as far from the natural world as it`s possible to be. But technology %u2013 the Internet specifically has been the bridge. It allows me to enjoy these perfect days, on any day of the week I choose........
I would say the best parts after the last header. All in all it`s a very good text in my opinion, especially if you just shorten up the story a bit for your target audience.
Loved to read it. And I find you are trustworthy.
Best regards Helle Rosenkrans
Oh, you just brought me back to remember the summer and how lovely it can feel on those magical days. Thank you for that, just what I needed this grey and rainy winter day.
I agree with you, I also have the fortune to discover the benefits of having an online business and that has given us so much freedom in life. The last couple of summers we have been able to spend 2 months on our sailing boat, visiting new countries around the Baltic Sea. But after reading this article I think I might need to bring my laptop (that`s all I need to run my business) and set sail toward Scotland. Keep an eye to the horizon, it might be us ;) //Erika